Hello all, I have been married to my wife for 7 years. We have two beautiful kids ages 5 &2. W has been saying she doesn't love me anymore and she hasn't for a few years. She had an affair in 2011 which we out in the past. I found out recently that she was having and emotional affair with someone. When I found out she said it would stop and she wants to work on us and the family. Things have been going in the right direction (so I thought). She told me on Feb 24,2016 that she wanted to separate because she's not happy. She says that it is not me and I am doing everything right.
We both work hectic jobs and she works nights. I found out yesterday she was still texting the guy from before, who is married with a child on the way. He has told her numerous times that he will not leave his wife for her and they are just friends. After I found that out she said she is done and wants a divorce. She says that she feels I can't be her true love because she allowed her heart to love someone else.
I've asked her to try counseling she says no then she says she might go one time but she is still done with me. Am I wrong to think we can still save this? Can someone fall back "in love"? I've been told the more I try to make it work the further I am pushing her away. If anyone can give some advice I will greatly appreciate it.
