I should add - I told H very clearly that I would prefer to have the kind of loving, affectionate relationship that I need with him, but if he isn't interested, he needs to set me free so I have a chance to find it with someone else.
He's still trying to say I'm the one who is breaking up the M.
After he 3 rounds of an EA/PA with the same OW and his refusal to continue MC.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17