I totally understand that vapo. That is a lot of what is in my head right now! I want him to know that none of this is his fault. At the same time I also want him to know that I tried with everything I have! What are your recommendations on how to respond to him?


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home