Whatever action he has towards to you with kindness and love will be for him not you. He must ease his conscience.
I will for the life of me never understand partners who continue to have tender moments knowing full well they are with a full blown WS. I know they think they can love them back but in all honesty they dont.
Right after will come the erratic behaviour when they have to find an excuse to justify leaving the S and will go for a confrontation to make you look the bad guy.
The more you give in to his whims the lower his respect of you and the more you will be his pillow when he has a bad moment with OW. Which he will.
As for truth darts I would be weary when to use them. I use them when someone tries arrogantly to step over a line and needs a gentle shove back into reality.
Think that everytime he touches, hugs or tries to kiss you he has done that to someone else recently and will do so again soon after. If after that you still give in, know that he has left respect for you than you do.
