My xh changed his underwear from white briefs to boxer shorts, shaved all of his hair off, i.e., like a GI cut, changed his clothing style, changed his eating habits and chewed gum like a cow. His taste in music changed as well. The PI asked if I had any clothes that had been stretched out of shape because my xh was looking a cross dressing sites, etc. Yep, he had it all and then some. Later he pierced his ear for his twinkle twat and gained an enormous amount of weight. Oh, let's not forget all of the facial hair!
They all go thru their phases of trying to figure themselves out.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
