Everything will work out in the end

[broke]

Rourky,

I'm so very sorry. This journey is just so painful. You did not do anything to deserve to be cheated on. Nothing! Those of us who have unfaithful spouses are not to blame for their choice to break their marital vows and justify the affair by stating the M had problems. I truly believe that the WAS is empty and trying to fill themselves up with the wrong things. It has more to do with them than with us. They are unhappy and are searching for that "quick fix".

Be gentle with yourself. You were standing for your family and marriage. Don't be hard on yourself. I know it hurts. Who knew emotional pain could make you hurt so physically?! I'm thinking of you and fear I'm headed down the same path as you..... Still in love with an H who has moved on. ((Hugs))