Hi, sorry for the hard time as I know what you are going through as my wife moved out this past week. She spoke to me on Sunday afternoon, wanting to say sorry and that she never entered the marriage to split up, I feel from reading some of Sandi's posts that this apology was just from her own guilt and nothing else. I didn't accept it and told her I would need her to show how sorry she was to believe it. She left that afternoon without saying anything.
I did not help her move her stuff, a joint friend helped her. I coundn't due to work but felt I wasn't going to do that but i did break down when I got home from work. Had to pick myself up again before picking up the kids.
Like most here, I see her in major turmoil and space and time to find herself and clear her head might work out for us. I hope the same for you and we can keep supporting each other through this process.
I am just working on making progress on the house we have been building and making it a home for the kids and me for the time being. She loved the plans for this house, progress had been slow the past year, something she has thrown at me that I was just waiting to buy the best stuff. Wasn't the case, but maybe a 180 is to just progress with small things.
