So it sounds like it exacerbates things really. I get that... as for financial, well, if I kick H out he has no real finances of his own. How do you deal w/that? Split things up? make it his problem, not mine? Ugh. So icky.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
