My new nick stands for Just keep swimming, Dory. I just love that happy clueless fish and I am going to watch the new cartoon when it comes out. I bet I will love it more than kid and I bet I will be the weirdo crying my eyes out at the slightest provications.
I have started weeding out people. I was talking to a good friend and told her that I outted my M status so publicly in my workplace because I refuse to be held hostage by the shame the ex and the TP had put me through.
I did not break up a family and a M. I did not lie to my colleagues to cover my ass and make other people look bad. I did not bail on my own kid.
And if my colleagues aren't cool with me because of the change in my M status, then they really are people that have no place in my life.
Thanks for putting me to task.
Short term goals for kid: Get her adjusted and spend time with her. Listen to her more, do more fun things and not be so short with her in the morn and b4 bedtime.
LOVE HER!
Short term goals for work: Buy over the stakeholders Keep a better schedule and stick to it Let slide my frustrations and not take things too personally
Short term goal for the ex: Minimal contact Keep it short and sweet Have no expectations Be civil and polite
But total NC would be nice.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
