Just want to point this out. When Spocks brother tried to take away Kirks pain what did James T say. "No its my pain... I need my pain, its what makes us who we are." We will make it through this with or with out our WS and our experience will make us who we are and we will be better than we were. Either our loose WS will get to enjoy our improvements or they wont.
BTW, I expect you are the only gal on the board that will get me trek reference which certainly makes you special in some circles.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16