Thanks TimR et al. You have talked me off the ledge. So telling her to move out bad idea. I kinda feel caught. The coach says don't talk about the future and it's hard to show her I'm getting a life if I don't start planing for a future. So agreed step one keep her close, step two keep up the GAL, fitness, planning family activities with the kids and getting her to participate (which she often does). What is Step three ? Like I said I need practical ideas that show her I'm GAL and the kids and I will be fine without her. As I said, Fitness is off the charts, I'm doing my share plus more of housework, catching up on home repairs, cleaning up financial mess, building my business,going to church, trying to find time to see friends and family. But, its all becoming regular - I need practical ideas on how to "disrupt" her and keep her guessing.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017