Need practical ideas to aid my 180/Last Resort.WAW

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Thanks Cadet. No I don't think it is simple. The reading is great, the coach is fab, the homework is hard. I'm not sure I understand. If the rules say she has to experience her own loss to get out of her fantasy fog am I just supposed to wait till that happens? Am I not enabling her. She is hardly a mom, she hides in the basement - losing herself to her "online community" where she feels she belongs (like an affair).

I get she is in a crisis, I've turned off the "nice" and certainly taken off the super husband cape. Everything I'm doing is for kids and I. According to the rules - she see's me as the enemy

Any and all ideas are welcome.