I think what we have all learned is about what WE need as partners.
Do you have a better idea of the type of guy that is a good fit for you?
I'm starting to learn about the type of woman that is best for me. And if things with W don't work out. I will be pretty picky in my next relationship. My W has a beautiful smile and nice figure, I was putty in her hands on our first date.
I wont make that mistake again. I will intentionally hold back and play it cool until I learn more about my next partner and what makes her tick.
I've learned that I tend to dive in too quickly. I click with someone and quickly start to assume she is the one. I can't be like that anymore. It's all a part of my codenpendency.
I'll make sure I ask the right questions next time too.