Still NC - Trying to move forward

[Sparkls]

What did you learn from this relationship, Sparks?

I"m sure I"ll come up with something insightful but I'm in full pity party mode at the moment and so the only answer I can come up with is that when something goes bad in my life, watch out, because EVERYTHING is going to go bad. (the last guy I loved left me right after my parents separated and now this right after my mom dies.)

I guess a slightly less pity party answer is to watch out for getting too comfortable or secure in a relationship because it'll go south without you realizing it.