I wish I could internalize your guys positiveness.
Waiting for my friends to get here, I went looking around the house to see what all he took. Weird collection of things
Like he took his french press, coffee, some of his tea but not others, honey, but none of his coffee cups (including his favorite one). Took an extra chain for his bike and the old seat (we bought him a nice new seat....) He took a bunch of stuff that was in box in the bedroom and put in the drawers of the dresser that are now empty because of all the other things of his I had previously packed. Like, weird [censored]. Oh, and he also took the TV and the blanket that had been his for years (affectionately called the moose blanket. This blanket is like 15 years old, everytime it tore, his mom would just buy a new cover and sew it on so its like 30 blankets sown together, super warm and comfy but I digress), and then we used as our blanket until we upsized beds when we moved into this house.Kind of makes me sick thinking of OW touching it. But she already has because it was the blanket on our guest bed which is apparently where she slept while I was out of town (*shudder*)

I guess one upside is at least he's not foaming at the mouth angry at me. But it just seems like we're light years away from him every changing his mind.


M:26 H:32 T:8yrs
ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16
D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16
Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW
I moved to different state: 06/16
Currently: Trying to move forward