Getting clothes is awesome. Pick out some nice clothes. Get the person to help you out. That's what I do. Once and awhile you can see a look on their face that is wow he looks good in that and it makes your day.
I too have been married twice to a woman I loved. Over time I started to realize the first I was young and we had a child together. I don't think I comprehended love fully. Second W is and was completely different. What I believe is true love. That may change in time tho. Who knows?
As for the frogs. I like to say you have to slay a lot of dragons before you find the princess.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
