Scrant, it sounds like you handled things well & I admire your self control. It is interesting that I think your W does still want to retain some control here. Ie: she is living with OM, but still wants to be able to buy you clothes? It's hard for her to think of you buying your own clothes....or maybe someone else buying them for you? I know - I'm mind reading.
Also, linking arms, hugs and kisses - saying she owes you dinner. Again, I think it wanting to maintain some control and not completely 'lose' you.
But I guess it's all immaterial while she chooses to remain with OM. Best to just keep looking forward my friend xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus