I haven't but just from my reading, there have been a few places that recommend it. Tends to yield less harsh feelings.
Yes, that's what I was thinking, compared to the route that she's on now, which almost guarantees animosity... That's probably even more important than the legal $$ saved.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016