Thank you for your input! Here is the revised version per your recommendations. Still waiting to hear Sandi2's thoughts. She does seem to be very reactionary, do you think it is to early for this? I feel like now or never because she keeps asking me for info related to her D filings. I also want to include the OM's name because he really isn't anything special in looks or employment and it would probably be embarrassing for her to know that I know the truth about her minimum wage knight in shining armor that lives @ home with his mommy.
"I HAVE BEEN DOING SOME THINKING.. and here is what I have decided. I don't know why I didn't see this before, but I have realized that this just isn't going to work this way. I now realize that I don't want to be with someone that really doesn't want to be with me. I don't want to be with someone who is in love with another man and having an affair. It just isn't what I want in life.
If you want to file, file. If you want to break off your relationship with xxxxxx and address the real issues that got our marriage to this point I am open to that too. But I will be alright either way. I also think you should figure out something to do with your stuff as soon as possible. Within two weeks would be good. If we need to we can just box it up and put it in the garage until you can afford your own place. I am sorry it didn't work out between us but I have now realized that maybe this is for the best. It looks like we both have some big decisions to make. Anyway, I have to go to my friends and I am running late. That is all I had to say. Talk to you later."
