You can't tell her how she should feel or think. Just let your actions allow her to decide to come back. Actions not words. Words are meaningless.
If I had a dollar for every time I heard that...from her! Now, if I'd have only listened...maybe I wouldn't be in this situation.
So own this statement. Do as the others are telling you and begin taking actions. Keep them centered on becoming a better version of who you are right now without thought as to her reactions. This is something to internalize as it will give you the sense of motion, accomplishment, and give you time away from thinking about your sitch. And in case you haven't gotten to that point yet, the actions to take now are 180s, GAL, and following sandi's rules. Good starting points.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
