Just based on how she has reacted when I've done things that haven't matched her assessment of how a LBS should act. It's all about control. My W still feels she can control me ('I want your bank card' - me 'no' - followed by ape$[censored] tantrum), so I'm expecting her to throw a tantrum. I could be wrong, but based on other things, I don't think so.
It's funny, everybody at work says they admire me for doing this trip, on my own, and saying I deserve it as I've had such a $hitty year. OK, they only have my side of the story, but they can see how it has affected me physically and mentally. I am constantly being told not to have her back, but it's not that easy with kids. But, of course, she's not the woman I married. Physically she is, but right now, she's being occupied by an utter nutter.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
