My DB coach says we can actually believe at least parts of what they say. The point is, it can change, because they may not know the truth themselves. Uphill I've been through this exact same thing and I noticed that every time I responded positively about us getting back together she backed off. Now I haven't heard from her since Sunday, which is somewhat unusual.
We just need to stay calm and focused. The coach also said I should act as though I've had an awakening and will move forward with my life, no matter what. (Even though I'm pretty depressed most of the time!) I'm going to try and project self-confidence, happiness and contentment. I can cry alone or with trusted friends.
I've started posting things on FB again. Coach said, why not? Can't hurt might help... Just don't be obvious.
Good luck to us all. Don't give up!!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
