My first post - please be nice.

[daybyday]

Sorry Collin, but you are among friends and the advice given so far is great. We all want this fixed NOW. The reality is that it can't be and nor should it be. You, like the rest of us LBS have been working all our lives to provide and take care of our families. We chose to give up part of our identity as individuals for the good of the M. Well my friend, now we get to "find ourselves" also. Just like the overused phrase that the WAS use. I am back again. 8 years ago I was here and wife came back. We didnt really fix the issues but my DBing IS what got her back. Now I am in same boat and have been really learning through this forum. A lot of it really does sound counter intuitive but it works. I think most of us LBS have lost the "mystery" that attracted WAS to us in the beginning. Time to get that back. That, to me, is what DB is all about. Keep us posted buddy.