hey

I think the in house separation is done because of finances. Or how bad the one initiating the S wants to get apart from the other Spouse.

Seeing as in house did not work for me I would say avoid it if you can.

Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016