V is for Vanilla 28

[Vanilla]

I made the decision a while ago to be open to putting my experiences on the board. Abuse is a separate dynamic although it interacts with DB.

I want others to see that this isn't easy, otherwise I sense Newcombers feel this is all rosy. Stuff triggers this and actually much less often these days.

Glam sis was supposed to come this weekend and has cancelled because of snow and ice.

That means I can work and sleep.

V