that sounds to me like she is blowing smoke up your ass. She is just making excuses IMO. I am not saying you do not have issues. I am sure you have issues. Own your stuff, recognize your faults and work on them, but DO NOT blindly follow her accusations.
I would suggest you go over your W's list and analyze each point she made. But be careful not to own stuff that is not your to own. I am curious to see, what you will come up with.
And no, do not talk to her about it, if you even contemplate having a "talk" with her about the issues and you falling on your sword and making all sorts of promises how you are going to better yourself, forget it, her mind is made up, and nothing you say or do will move her. I hope you do realize that.
