Been thinking a lot about separation... specifically, me insisting on one. Is in house any advantage over not? In my case, I'm thinking not in house is better but maybe there's more to it. What do you all think? (sorry, don't mean to hi-jack ... it's not clear from your experience here).

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?