My first post - please be nice.

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I hear you Collin. You want others to think like you and sometimes you tell them how they should think and feel. "hey, I'm a great H, you should feel lucky to have me". Nobody appreciates others telling them how they should think and feel. It's controlling, arrogant, and demeaning.

If you do things (actions again) that REPEATEDLY demonstrate (not just once) that you are worthy of being thought to be an awesome H then she will let you know through her actions. Obviously, you have REPEATEDLY demonstrated the opposite and she is letting you know through her actions.