1313 sorry you are going through this. We certainly have so much in common in our sitches it is uncanny and I feel sorry for anyone who has anything in common with me at this point. I wander how much of their actions are fueled by OM. At the points we are at however, I guess it really does not matter.

Like I said it is bad enough we are going through the dissolution of our Ms but to have to deal with the lies, anger and intentional actions to hurt us is just unfair.

I cannot give you any advise on going to her parents and talking to them. Obviously this is against the DB play book and I cannot advise you to do it. Ask yourself "what good will this do me in reaching my goals." I also think she would be furious if you did. Let me ask this way "besides making yourself feel better, what would it accomplish?"

With regard to the assistant playing a part in this, yes my MIL is also a conspirator. I have dropped that bag of bricks for now. My MIL does not know me, just as assistant does not know you. You can bet I screened shot the social media boards incase it becomes relevant at a later date. But as far as getting at her, you know F that, I am the bigger person and as much as I think she will find herself in the lowest ring of he11 in the future, she doesn't bother me. Miserable people are going to be miserable... that is enough karma for me.

I wish you the very best 1313. I know the pain and anger it causes, but we can make it through bc we must there is no choice.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16