in that case I wouldnt even be worried about how to DB in house. I would just be concerned with how you need to remain calm and set your boundary about being in the house without being seemed to come off angry.

Then be ready to manage the backlash for a few days.

when things calm down, then you can start worrying about that.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15