Hiya peeps.
Quit update... PC not functioning, and this website is not the best to surf to from my work PC. I'm IT so i can cover it, but they are IT too so they can uncover it, lol

Let's see... jerkface weird. He never contacts me or the kids, but every once in a while he will send a quick text? Never about anything.

For example we spoke once or twice in February... he sent me a happy valentine's day text. He never sent me a Happy Thanksgiving text, He completely ignored me on Christmas, and i am still waiting for a Happy New Year text. But Vday rolls around and:
H:Happy valentines day Mona. I hope you are having a wonderful day. smile

i replied the next day "Thx, you too H"

We spoke a little more in Feb and he saw the kids one day.

Out of the blue on Wednesday
H: Hey, You OK?
me: Yes, why?

No answer.

A while later...
me: lol, did you text me by accident?

Hours later...

H: Lol no. I had a bad dream and I'm just checking on you

I ALMOST invited him out with me and the kids Wednesday because of the text. I was going to entice him by offering to pay his way and buy him ciggs. But some peeps on this board slapped me before I could invite him and pulled me through smile

I still spend Fridays dancing with Brian. It is a highlight of my week. I spend Wednesdays with my kids at karaoke and it is SOOOOOOO much fun!

Saturday night and Monday night I spend with Chris. He bought me roses and a sapphire necklace so far smile. I keep telling him not to. I cant believe how nice it is spending time with him. But it is only 2 nights a week and I dont see that changing to any more or any less anytime soon.

I have not given upon my H, but I dont think about him much anymore and I spend my days very happy most of the time.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!