Hi Everyone, thanks for the kind words. It means a lot. I didn't sleep much at all last night - this just kept spinning around in my head.
No, it's not that I'm not going to stoop to this level - I can't. However, all I really need to do is tell the truth. Going through this again she's contradicted herself - and I have so much in the way of email and text to back up what I'm saying.
As I mentioned, I'm not even sure how much is legally relevant. I have half a mind to hand this thing to her parents. They wouldn't believe it possible, and we even laughed when I said "she'll probably say I beat the dog". Well, she did.
Unfortunately, I've been protective of her and that's going to stop. Now. I've never mentioned how much her drinking has bothered me, and how it's affected our lives. She may have stopped with her health kick, but old habits and all.
I'm not sure if the burden of proof is on her for anything either, it's one thing to throw wild accusations out there. I'm wondering just how do you break into your own home? And to say she's afraid for her life - and I'm doing things to cause mental anguish... She seems pretty capable of that on her own.
Tim, I know you've gotten pretty close to this kind of stuff, but I think we've really got something in common with another person pitching BS as well. I'm not sure how the assistant can be relevant, but I've got some pretty incriminating text messages from her if she is.
Oh well, today I grab some of the docs the lawyers want (still) and then try to forget this for at least a day. Unfortunately, I want access to the house to scan my painting - and I have no idea how to do that now. This just hit 11 on the weird-o-meter and broke the needle.
Maybe I could ask her parents if they'd set some time aside and ask the W for one of them to let me in. I'm not taking anything, and they'd say if I were moving things around, destroying things, leaving lights on etc. like the W claims.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)