I feel for ya, 1313. Yes the WW knows no limits to their underhandedness. This is hard enough without the lies and insults but for some reason they add that in as well. I do not remember Sandi explaining how they get so vicious but it does seem to go hand and hand with WW.

1313, I cannot give you any advice within the DB ideology. I can only tell you what I am going to do. I am going to refuse to stoop to WW's level and am going to take the high road. While I think I could drive the sh!t out of the low road, FB posts about her cheating, turning S against her etc, at the end of this I need to look at myself in the mirror and feel comfortable with who I am.

Please do not consider that me lying down and just taking whatever it is she decides to throw at me. No, I am going to protect myself and S but do it in the most honest and dignified way I can come up with. Years from now I want my S to ask me how did I keep calm and act with dignity and morals the same way I asked my father.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16