I'm sorry about all the spew. That's something I've never really had to deal with, I hope someone else will step up and help you out with that part.
For now, you just need to be stable. You do need to spell out some boundaries, maybe weed some people out. Maybe seek out some new people.
What are your short term goals here? Goals related to Kid, related to the X, related to work, related to GAL. They don't have to be lofty, they can be really simple. But it's something to focus on.
