Still NC - Trying to move forward

[TimR]

Hey Thornton, its hard not to have those thoughts about whether they ever really us. I think the same thing too, and actually friends have voiced the same questions. Lets face it though we are never really going to get the answers to that so important question, so we need to just let it go.

Like you I am starting to imagine my life with someone else. IDK, is that something that comes with detachment? Maybe when we truly detach they can no longer hurt out because we are all but walking away. If that is the case, the more I detach the less likely I will come back.