Holiday Advice

[peacetoday]

Its a fine line to figure out what kind of responses work in mLC

The coach told me if you find a reaction is bringing R closer, continue it

If it creates distance ,stop it

You will have to figure out what responses are best but I think validating and being cordial and kind without going overboard or pursuing
read her cues as best you can

and remember continue with your life
focus on you too
maybe a new hobby, activity or friend
You can't fix her and she will need to go through this on her own