Now what?/ One Day at a Time

[melweb]

H called, yes called, Wed evening. No R talk, just hows things, whats new. I am cordial and kind. Then he texts me at 1:30 in the morning, "You awake?" I wasn't.

Last night he texts a pic of where is, then tells me a friend of his and his wife with three young kids split up.

I talked to IC yesterday he too. I know he supports DB, because he suggested it after first BD, yet he thinks I address the A. That its too psycologically damaging not to, and totally friend zone/roomate H. No laundry, ironing, etc. And clearly by becoming 'the best melweb and a woman only a fool would leave,' I wasn't very successful.

I maintain that he thinks he has the hard part done by telling me. He has yet to
pack a bag and walk away from this family. Furthermore, I think this A does not have a Snowballs chance!! They live 3 hrs away from each other, and if its the one I think it is, she has 4 kids under 10! Maybe I am being too optimistic.

He is home tomorrow and I am so confused!!!