I am glad you have found peace in your situation and from your posts we have learned a lot about your thoughts and reflections.That is great as it is our thinking that determines both our actions and our attitude.
A while back you listed the traits you want to change.How are you doing with that? What actions are you taking for that.
Are you standing up to your W? Don't let her disrespect you. Make a conscious decision to ACT whenever she disrespects you.
How are your interactions in the house? What are you doing to further improve them? I am not only referring to with W. Get off this forum when you are with your kids and do something together.
As you are well aware it is our actions that determine our results.Just a gentle reminder.
You don't need to reply to this.It is just to get you thinking and hopefully DOing.
Happy thoughts.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together