What the heck is this?

[BrightFuture]

2T, isn’t it a constant battle within ourselves regarding the things we do for our H’s. I constantly think about this line between enabling H by taking care of business and some things for his, and not shaking the things up to allow him to continue on his journey. Heck, I did something I would never think I would do at this point in my sitch, I helped H to book a rental car. I would never thought that he would ask me to do this for him. Is he getting more comfortable with the thought of us a friends, business partners (I doubt this, since his part of the business has nothing to do with my), or something else…

I was just reading Mirage’s post on Wet’s thread about different types of MLC – internal and external. External means that MLCer is doing all the active replay activities – drinking, partying, spending money, etc. which in essence is trying to avoid looking inside. External MLC takes a lot longer. So, with this thought, I’m trying to evaluate of I should continue doing what I’ve been doing, or stir the pot.

I think you have similar situation. With luck of a significant movement one way or another, it is very difficult to make a decision. There is always that last piece of hope… Regarding the phone calls, I would let your BIL answer them for a couple of days and see how it goes. Then you can be back to your usual routine of answering these calls. Maybe it will put a small seed of a doubt in H’s mind about what you are up to. Just a thought. Take care.