Where will we go from here

[TimR]

Thank you Broke. She does not have a lawyer yet, I do not think she has the money to get one right now. I think if she did she would filed for divorce by now. However, you did give me an idea. WW works with lawyers and maybe mine could reach out to one of them and speak with them. Maybe they would be willing to speak with her. I know one WW works with she really respects.

Cadet I am sorry but I do not understand what you mean that there maybe a lot of truth in what she is saying?? I acknowledge I contributed greatly to our problems, I did lack opening up to her, in displaying my affection for her and neglecting her and our M. Maybe I am not clearly self evaluating right now but I cannot for the life of me figure out how I contributed to her using S as a chess piece to hurt me or cheating on me. Even regardless of the cheating for the life of me I cannot understand how there is truth in her threatening S that she will never let him see me again or being mean to him for wanting to spend time with me.

Again I am not perfect but cannot see the truth in that. Honestly all I can see is a person willing to destroy their own flesh and blood for their own self satisfaction. We are adults dealing with adult situations we both should be able to put our feelings aside for the benefit of the kids.