I'm so sorry, Tim. I cannot imagine what you are going through. My H is a cheater and a liar. But, he does love his sons and I would never "use" them to get back at him.

You seem like a great guy who wants to do the right thing. I wish there was something else I could think of to help you. Does she have a L? Can your L reach out to hers and discuss before you file and open the can of worms with biological dad? Maybe if her L was one talking to her the emotions would be taken out....


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16