I agree that getting in contact with a L isnt' a bad idea. I think trying to force yourself back into the home probably is. You're making a disaster out of a situation that hasn't happened (I'm just as guilty of this (Re: the dogs in my sitch)) but it doesn't hurt to have a game plan just in case your disaster scenario is true. So yeah, I agree with Thornton, a L is probably a good person to have in your corner.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward