I know that they say believe nothing they say and 1/2 of what they do, but I am 99.9% sure she is going to file. I doubt it will snap her out of it, but I must agree I have been a "wet noodle" so to speak. I think I should stand up for myself and have some self respect. If she is going to file, she is going to file.
Maybe I can word it less "let's file now" and more "if you want to file, file" "If you want to break off your relationship and address the real issues that got our R to this point I am open to that too" but something has got to change <--might be to much of pursuit and less of what the "last last resort" is supposed to do.
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