Ok I read about this "last last resort technique". Here's my question, are you really ready to accept the consequences if it's over? Because that's what the book says, this is it. Because if you are, I'm not really sure it matters too much how you say it. Because either 1) you wake her up or 2) she follows through on filing. Just want to make sure you're ok with 2....

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16