Thanks Broke, I am trying my best and other then the second day after she left I have out all my true feeling on hold of trying to pursue and convince her to come back and am putting on the brave face that I'm doing fine and happy doing my own thing. I have not mentioned the fact that she left or the marriage once because in her head right now she doesn't want to be married if I try and force the issue now and talk about the future I think she would say what she is currently feeling which is there is no future
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16