Hi sorry, my wife is not willing to date, even though I've wanted her to do that since the start of the separation.

I meant during the holidays when we have turn about with the kids.

i.e when she has them, if she suggests I go on a day out with them as a family, should I go?

and the opposite, when I have them should I invite wife to come for days out with us?

M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted