Marriage Crumbling

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James, keep in mind a WW will use kissing, hand-holding, sex, etc. as a means of manipulation. Keeping you on her hook. Notice how she quickly reverts back to disrespecting you. This may be her keeping you on plan B if she is an EA/PA. For me, I would be checking the cell phone text and phone records on your monthly bill for heavy contact with a number you don't know.

I never suspected my W in an EA until I checked. 1200 texts and over 1000 minutes of calls in a 10 day period burst that bubble. All it took for me to check was a sudden realization she was more secretive and out more than normal. FB is another place where I found the context of this contact since she mistaken thought she deleted those messages. The changing password and other behavior have a lot of signs that this may be going on. My W changed passwords, learned how to block me in FB, etc. (coached from her BF that was in multiple A"s). No point in asking her, she will just lie if she is in one.

Changing the dynamic. Go to work earlier so you can't take care of the boys in the morning. Go to work every day. Go the library to study. Don't ask, just tell her you will be doing this. Be the boss of your time.