Hi everyone, I have been reading about people's situations on this forum for a couple of weeks trying to find help and tips for my current situation. I feel it's time for my own and see what everyone thinks about my situation.
My wife of 2 1/2 years moved out 3 weeks ago. I knew something had to happen I could feel the build up for a while we were both not very happy. The last week she was at home she was struggling to get any sleep and I would ask why she would say "I can't turn my head off" then eventually one night she said she wasn't happy at all and was grumpy all the time and didn't like the person she was. She was very upset and neither of us slept that night. The next morning she moved to her parents house.
We have been together 5 1/2 years and lived together for most of that. We have a 1 1/2 year old daughter. The last couple of years have been very tough due to my wife's health conditions we had to use IVF to have our daughter it took a lot of time,money and stress.
So my current situation is wife has moved into her own apartment with our daughter moved in a week ago. Says she's not happy and ILYBNILWY. I have been following ideas and tips on here I'm trying to give her time because I think she is confused about what she really wants in life right now, I asked about counseling and she said " let's give it a month or two and if we both want to we can" I have been trying for the last few days to have no contact so she has a chance to see how she feels without me but everyday she finds a reason to contact me but then turns it so it's like I needed to speak with her. I am 30 and my wife is 25. I really think she has had a lot of stress and in her head is starting to question her whole life and isn't sure what she wants. I know this is going to take time and I'm not expecting any miracles where she just shows up back at home like nothing happened. Any ideas welcome. Thankyou
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
