Posting as an update again, still waiting on DR book to be delivered... hopefully it will back up what I've been doing so far.

I have some questions in the meantime about holidays and things for those with kids. How do people handle these the DB way?
We will probably split our time as usual.
Do I agree to go on days out with her if she suggest in her time?
Do I invite out during my time? (suspect no!)

M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted