Where will we go from here

[TimR]

Thanks g8r. I looked into social worker and have not had any luck with finding one. I have considered call the school psychologist but am worried it will get back to WW. I may text my fellow coach who works there and will keep it quiet.

You are absolutely right. Once I pull the trigger things are going to get very ugly. I do not want that. Worse I know once S voices his opinion which seems to be happening already, WW is going to start attacking him and taking her moods out on him. There is no saving feelings in court, if you do you lose; so I do not want this to get that far. I am hoping my NC will soften her to an extent, but the fact she was texting me friendly after saying all those things to him, I just do not think it is going to happen. Regardless, I have some time to play with so I am going to hang back and monitor. I know my thread sounds like I am moving with guns a blazin but let me say this is really not what I want. S should not be put in the position he is stuck in, that is a burden a 13 yo should not need to bare. I was 17 when my parents went through D and I was not equipped at that age.

I did find a mediation program which may help but I do not think she will go voluntarily. I also think if I ask right now it will lead to a fight.

Sandi asked why we are afraid of our WW's anger. This is exactly it!